Ecumenical

GREETING 

Priest

My dear brothers and sisters 

in the Lord, 

we are gathered here today 

in faith and hope 

in our loving God, 

the Father of our 

Lord and Saviour 

Jesus Christ.

Although our hearts are filled 

with sorrow at the loss of 

our brother/sister (N...)

we look to our loving God, 

who promises eternal life 

to all His children. 

As we begin 

our service of interment, 

let us invite our God 

to be with us here 

as we pray together 

in confidence.


OPENING VERSES

All : 

I look to Thee 

in every need, 

and never look in vain;

I feel Thy strong 

and tender love, 

and all is well again.

The thought of Thee 

is mightier far, 

than sin and pain 

and sorrow are.


Priest:

Discouraged 

in the work of life, 

disheartened by its load, 

Shamed by its failures 

or its fears, 

I sink beside the road.

But let me only 

think of Thee, 

and then new heart 

springs up in me. 

Thy calmness 

bends serene above, 

my restlessness to still;


Around me flows 

Thy quickening life, 

to nerve my faltering will. 

Thy presence 

fills my solitude, 

Thy providence 

turns all to good.


Enfolded deep 

in Thy dear love, 

held in Thy law, I stand;

Thy hand in 

all things I behold, 

and all things 

in Thy hand.


Thou leadest me 

by unsought ways, 

and turn my mourning 

into praise.

Source: Samuel Longfellow 

(Hymns of the Spirit-1864)


GOSPEL READING

A reading from the Holy Gospel 

according to John 

(Jn 6:37-40)


Jesus said to them,

'Everything that the Father 

gives me will come to me, 

and anyone who comes to me 

I will never drive away; 

for I have come down 

from heaven, 

not to do my own will, 

but the will of him 

who sent me.

And this is the will 

of him who sent me, 

that I should lose nothing 

of all that he has given me, 

but raise it up 

on the last day. 

This is indeed 

the will of my Father, 

that all who see the Son 

and believe in him 

may have eternal life; 

and I will

raise them up

on the last day.


The Gospel of the Lord.

All :

Praise to you

Lord Jesus Christ.


PRAYER OF INTERMENT

Priest:

Lord, God 

You are attentive 

to the voice of our pleading. 

Let us find in Your Son 

comfort in our sadness,

certainty in our doubt, 

and courage to live 

through this time. 

Make our faith strong 

in the name of Jesus our Lord.


Lord, (N...) is gone now 

from this earthly dwelling, 

and has left behind those 

who mourn his/her absence. 

Grant that we may hold 

his/her memory dear, 

never bitter for what we have 

lost nor in regret for the past, 

but always in hope 

of the eternal kingdom 

where You will bring us 

together again. 

We ask this in Jesus' name.

All : Amen.


Priest: 

With confidence, 

let us pray the words 

Jesus taught us


THE LORD'S PRAYER &

THE ANGELIC SALUTATION

Priest: 

With confidence, 

let us pray the words 

Jesus taught us...


All: 

Our Father, who art in heaven, 

hallowed be thy name; 

thy kingdom come,

thy will be done on earth 

as it is in heaven.

Give us this day 

our daily bread; 

and forgive us our trespasses, 

as we forgive those 

who trespass against us;

and lead us not into temptation, 

but deliver us from evil.

Amen.


Hail Mary, full of grace,

the Lord is with you.

Blessed are you amongst women

and blessed is the 

fruit of your womb, Jesus. 

Holy Mary, Mother of God,

pray for us sinners now,

and at the hour of our death. 

Amen.


Glory be to the Father,

and to the Son,

and to the Holy Spirit,

as it was in the beginning,

is now and ever shall be,

world without end.

Amen.


CONCLUSION

Priest:

Eternal rest grant unto (N...) 

O Lord.

All : 

And let perpetual light 

shine upon him/her.


Priest: 

May he/ she rest in peace.

All : Amen.


Priest:

May the souls of all 

the faithful departed, 

through the mercy of God, 

rest in peace.

All : Amen.


BLESSING

Priest: 

My dear brothers and sisters, 

our service is coming 

to its close. 

Before we depart 

from this place, 

we ask for 

God's blessings on us.


May He show his face to you 

and have mercy on you.

All : Amen.


Priest:

May He turn His countenance 

to you and give you peace.

All : Amen.


Priest: 

May Almighty God bless you, 

the Father (+) and the Son 

and the Holy Spirit.

All : Amen.


CLOSING VERSES

All : 

Death is nothing at all. 

I have only slipped away 

into the next room. 

I am I, 

and you are you. 

Whatever we were 

to each other, 

that we still are.


Priest:

Call me by my 

old familiar name, 

speak to me 

in the easy way 

which you always used.

Put no difference 

in your tone, 

wear no forced air 

of solemnity 

or sorrow. 

Laugh as we always laughed 

at the little jokes 

we enjoyed together. 

Play, smile, think of me 

and if you want to, 

pray for me.

Let my name 

be ever the household word 

that it always was, 

let it be spoken 

without effect, 

without the trace 

of a shadow on it.

Life means all that 

it ever meant. 

It is the same 

as it ever was; 

there is unbroken continuity. 

Why should I be 

out of mind because 

I am out of sight?

I am waiting for you, 

for an interval,

somewhere very near, 

just around the corner. 

All is well.

Source: Henry Scott Holland (1847-1918)